Grandpa
As a child, my grandparents babysat me everyday after school. My grandfather would read to me, or we would watch sports together. He worked as a pastor and seemed to know everybody! When we went out in public, people would often tell me about how my grandpa helped change their lives. People loved him, and he loved everybody. With a warmth and intelligence that drew others to him, I always felt like I had his attention and support. He showed me what caring for a family looks like, keeping close relationships with my mother and aunts, and he and my grandmother were married for 65 years!
Grandma
When I think about my grandmother, I think about safety, warmth, love, support . . . The list goes on and on. My grandmother was a the rock that held our family together. My sister and I went to her house almost daily as children, and we spent that time working on homework, reading, watching movies, talking about friendships and family. She attended school functions and sporting events with me, always stressing the importance of considering the feelings of others and remembering the impact that my actions can have on others. To this day, when it comes time to make an important decision, I consider what my grandmother would have to say about it.
Sister
We played, we laughed, we fought, we were best friends, I guess we were like a lot of siblings growing up. She's a couple years older than I am, and I could always go to her when stressed or scared. When I was little, if I had a nightmare she would let me spend the night in her room, she made me feel safe. To this day I continue to talk with her about important life decisions and value her advice. She has her own family now and I am thrilled to be a first-time uncle! I hope to offer my nephew the support that my family members gave me growing up.
Mom & Dad
My parents are my heroes. Growing up, my parents created a household climate that was supportive, warm, and loving. They always encouraged me and helped me when I needed it. They continue to be my confidants. Both are educators, and I feel my passion for working with children and families comes from them.